šŸ‚ November: A Season for Thanksgiving, Kindness, and Showing Up for Each Other

ā€œWhere there is love, there is life.ā€ — Mahatma Gandhi

There’s something about November that naturally slows us down.
The air gets crisp, the evenings get quieter, and the world seems to whisper, Pay attention.

We step into a month that’s always been rooted in gratitude—but this year, that feeling lands a little deeper.

Because we’re living in a moment where kindness matters more than ever.
Not the polished, performative kind.
Not the ā€œlook at me being helpfulā€ kind.

But the simple, real, human kind.
The kind that costs little and means everything.

Last week, I had one of those encounters that stays with you.
I was leaving work at the senior center when I noticed a woman sitting outside on a bench, just resting. She had that look we all recognize— the kind of tired that settles into your face and posture when life has been too heavy for too long..

I sat down next to her for a moment, just to say hello. We talked about the weather, her granddaughter, and how expensive everything has gotten. At one point she laughed and said, ā€œSome days you just need someone to talk to for five minutes.ā€

Five minutes.
That was all she needed.
Five minutes that cost me nothing but meant something to her.

I walked away thinking about how much impact we can have without even realizing it. A small act… a big difference.

More people are struggling right now—struggling to put food on the table, to pay for basic healthcare, to just make it through the week with their dignity intact. You don’t have to look far to see it. It’s in our communities, our neighborhoods, and sometimes in the eyes of people we love.

And that’s why November feels especially important.
It invites us to soften a little.
To open our hearts a little wider.
To remember that generosity isn’t measured by the size of the act, but by the intention behind it.

This time of year, I find myself reflecting on the small, simple ways kindness shows up:

šŸ A warm meal shared.
šŸ A donation to a food bank, even if it’s just a few cans.
šŸ Checking on a friend who’s been a little too quiet.
šŸ Holding the door for someone.
šŸ Say a prayer, send a blessing, or simply send good energy into the world.
šŸ Offering a smile to a stranger—you never know what it might mean.

These small gestures may feel insignificant in the moment, but they create ripples.
And right now, the world is hungry for those ripples.

Thanksgiving isn’t just a holiday—it’s a way of living.
A practice of seeing abundance even when life feels heavy.
A reminder that kindness doesn’t have to be flashy to be meaningful.

So this November, be generous with your smile, your time, your patience, your heart.
You never know whose day—or life—you might brighten.

Cindy Rae Mewhorter

Cindy Rae worked as a top model throughout Europe for ten years and was based in Milan, Italy. During that time she was featured in hundreds of magazines and advertising campaigns, many TV commercials and TV shows, not to mention endless runway shows in many different countries. She currently coaches young adults in modeling and acting careers in San Francisco and has appeared in many movies, commercials and catalogs in the Bay Area.

Her writing has appeared in online magazines such as Fuze Fashion Magazine and Fashion Xchange Magazine. She also has a blog titled ​Beautiful at Any Age.

Not Always Pretty is the first half of her life and she has begun a second book about the struggles of raising a child solo.

https://cindy@cindyrae.org
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